My mother passed away this
past July after a long health decline. I still recall the joy of sharing
remembrances during her memorial service and thought a few of them might strike
positive sparks (thanks to Annie of McGuffy’s Reader for starting this feel
good wave). Marilyn set good examples more than lecturing, and spread a lot of
fun while doing it.
My dear niece Ashley shared
such a memory. A decade earlier she and her sister were awaiting their paternal
grandmother to pick them up from school one day. My mom showed up right on time
– driving a Corvette. Tearful laughter ensued as my niece wondered aloud how
many grandmother’s were cool enough to pick up their grandkids in a Stingray
fit for the race track (and Mom raced a few times in her day, too!).
Randy, a dear family friend,
recalled his first meeting of my mother as she rolled dice over a solo game of
Yahtzee. When a handheld digital game became available, he immediately bought
her one. She, in turn, saw me enjoying the device on a visit and gifted me my
own that following Christmas. I still have it.
Mom loved her animals, too. Even
after losing dear miniature schnauzer Rocky and thinking their dog rearing days
were over after that heartbreak, she acquiesced without complaint when my
father decided to get a puppy. What a handful, and a true Daddy’s girl that dog
turned out to be. Still, unable to walk on her own for the last year or so, Mom
spoke of her joy at hearing little toenails tapping the wood floor as Misty
came to wake her each morning. On that note, I’m thankful Dad has that little
schnoodle keeping him company.
Have a joyful Monday!
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Those are beautiful memories of a beautiful lady who knew how to live life well. Thank you for sharing them with us. Hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! Hope you are having a wonderful Monday.
DeleteOh, Darla...this is so special. Thank you for sharing these special sparks. Love you, my friend. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteThank you! ~hugs~ Best wishes and love to you and yours, my dear.
DeleteFrom what I have read, your mother was an amazing woman. And you are too. XO
ReplyDeleteAw, thank you! So are you.
DeleteSweet stories.
ReplyDeleteThank you, my dear. That means a lot.
DeleteThank you for sharing this. I lost my mother when I was 18 and still remember her fondly. Don't forget that those that are close to us will live on with us for as long as we allow them to be free in our minds.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the kind words. I'm so sorry you lost your mother at such a young age. I can't imagine how tough that must have been.
DeleteSuch positive thoughts to remember and to share with others. Okay....gotta ask, did your mom own the corvette? hahaha...I love it. Sounds like she was a total mess! I never took up racing...although I thought about it. My nephew started out racing go carts and then late model cars at a track about 30 mins away. They had a series called, "Taxicab driving"....no caution, no stops, just get out there and bang them up. I wanted to do that but I have a bad back and asthma so I decided against doing it. My brother was going to be my sponsor! I think I would have liked your mom.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the kind words. My mother would have liked you, too. And yes, she did own the 'Vette. Dad started collecting the cars, refurbishing several from rusty scrap, and bought a newer one special for her to drive. Taxicab driving sounds like our demolition derbies. I thought it looked fun as a child but didn't want to end up with a bad back. ~shudders~ I already had the asthma, too. Hope you're feeling well!
DeleteYou mom sounds like she was one amazing woman. I love the fact that she made the school run in a corvette. :-)
ReplyDeleteShe was very special. Thank you!
DeleteWhat a wonderful post. Your mom sounds like a beautiful person. Heaven is lucky to have her.
ReplyDeleteThank you! She was special.
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