Wednesday, April 8, 2026

Fond Old Memories, a Precious New One, & Sad Yet Beautiful Decay

Before moving for more lucrative employment in a big city, my father worked at our small isolated town’s sole industrial plant and also did other jobs to provide for his wife and us four kids. The side gig I remember most was at the town cemetery.

As a groundskeeper, he sometimes brought us all along to help. On summer days I relished sweeping and dusting inside the mausoleum’s cool marble interior while my three older brothers toiled in the heat. To this day I find comfort and peace in cemeteries and decided to explore one where a friendly neighbor was buried over fifteen years (?!) ago.

My old friend’s plot is just over this bridge…

Cool find, no?

I did not expect any wooden crosses...

Sadly, I found the windows alone clean and undamaged...


I left untouched the various sweet mementos...


Frankly, most of these trinkets look in better shape than the dirty, decaying building. Cobwebs were everywhere, leaf debris littered the floor, and even some mud dauber wasp nests clung to a few chamber facings.

Interestingly, the range of interment dates inside and out on the grounds was staggering. I found abject decrepitude amid modern monoliths.

The one in the foreground was so illegible, making
an imprint would not recover anything...


To my astonishment, a bird flew in through the open door and all the way to the back before turning around. Unfortunately, the creature didn’t dive below the oddly placed archway. Hitting solid rock, it tumbled two stories to the concrete below. Smart phone already in hand, I took a quick disturbing video before offering aid. Feel free to scroll past to the clip I filmed moments before he or she flew off into the sunlit trees.



How I managed to get my phone and take footage is a mystery. The bird continued gripping my finger that entire time.

Should I offer to sweep and clean up a bit? Do you think doing so without permission would be considered trespassing?

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9 comments:

  1. Cemeteries are fascinating. I had no idea you did that as a kid. Would you be tempted again? I would contact the owners of the cemetery before doing any sort of cleanup. They probably have employees.

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  2. I think you should. Surely you are just helping, so no one is going to get angry, even if you are advised to not clean.

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  3. Since you asked, I say do what makes you feel happy.
    Birds are such interesting critters, and the feel of their feet/talons gripping a finger is an experience; like tiny twigs.

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  4. I've trapped cats in several cemeteries. I find them peaceful and welcoming. I'm glad the bird made it.

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  5. Those places are sure full of interesting finds.

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  6. I don't think you need permission to improve something. It is sad that so many cemeteries end up like that. Poor bird. That was kind of you to help it. XO

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  7. thinking that they would not be so pleased at you jumping in and sweeping! lol....might stir up more dust then they would want...I stopped by a cemetery not long ago, a pet one where my mom buried three dogs, it was HORRIBLE. I called and ask for location of each of her dogs, and voiced my dislike of how it was kept. I was suppose to call back to get that info but YIKES, I have not yet.

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  8. I am glad the bird 🐦 made it. I find cemeteries peaceful and most are beautiful.
    I response to your comment on my blog, yes, I did see that. I am so happy you like her channel on YouTube, Darla. I have been watching her videos for several months now and think she does a great job.
    I hope you have a wonderful weekend. 💛

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